Mother's Day. Big 'ole mixed feelings about this day. On the one hand,
yes, it's a Hallmark holiday. On the other hand, who cares if it's a commercially-inspired holiday or not? Mothers can use all the help they can get. So if Hallmark or American Greetings wants to have my back one day a year, then by all means, pressure husbands around the world to celebrate mothers for their calendar-illiterate children. I won't protest that.

But, being that Terry and I also have mothers, we must pay homage to
their matriarchy this day as well. And where did our children inherit their calendar-illiteracy? From their parents, of course. So, in order for me to want breakfast in bed, flowers, and a beautiful card on M.D., I better be prepared to give a little to
my mama as well. And if I happen to drop the Mother's Day ball (for the 28th year in a row), I like to think it's only because it's just a Hallmark holiday. (By the way, your birthday's week-proximity to Mother's Day does make things a bit more difficult, Mom. Jeez.)
So, with that said, if my mother is absent from all of my Mother's Day photos, don't think I'm the worst daughter on the planet. Confession: I did not see her on Sunday. Instead, imagine family gathered around a birthday cake in honor of her birthday (and her motha' flippin' hood too) only days before. Not to mention that my mother is the leader in the anti-commercial holiday revolution. You've not heard of that? I just made it up.
As for the mama at Casablanca, she did get just what she wanted on Sunday. I had breakfast served to me. Coffee. This awesome card. Fiona deciding that she likes her name spelled with a "y", rather than an "i". Happy Mother's Day!

I had the opportunity to go grocery shopping
alone. And this truly a luxury when there aren't children [wanting to be
into and then
out of carts] in tow.

And then the simple pleasure of emptying out packaged goods into my own jars and canisters, post-grocery shopping. I love doing looking at everything through glass.

And some of us celebrated Mother's Day with a nap. That'ah girl.

Meanwhile, Terry was thoughtful enough to tackle the nasty job of clearing out the aggressive wisteria that has taken over the chicken run in the back yard. There's not nearly enough pretty purple blooms to make up for it's choking ability.


Fiona and I played together. Playing "Pony on Pillow Mountain" is the perfect way to celebrate Mother's Day in my opinion.

And we ended our day with dinner al fresco. Life can't get much better than this. Being a mom is as good as it gets.
5 comments:
Sounds like the perfect day! Grocery shopping solo is quite the luxury. I see some garden peeking out of that last photo. I'm dying to see closeups. And, my heart goes out to you for having to deal with the horrors of wisteria. As I'm driving down the road and see it's beautiful purple flowers, I say a little prayer that the stuff doesn't introduce itself onto our land. It's nearly as scary as kudzu in it's power to overtake every structure around.
That is my favorite picture of Fiona ever.
Your life is really good, Dera. Don't forget it.
Love you, miss you.
so sweet. I have mom guilt cause I left my family on moms day to have a little me time. On a side note, I can't wait to sit in your backyard and talk...and maybe drink.0
I didn't think the girls could get any cuter, but they have!! That Fiona is such a little "poser" - looks like a little model doing a photo shoot! And little Nevie sleeping like an angel and standing in the chair. And tall! How cute is she!? Pretty darn cute! What are you feeding them? Are those organic home grown veggies making them sprout? Is there any room left in the backyard for my palace?
ML
I thought I was the only weird one who liked to take everything out of the packaging and put it in jars. It looks so much prettier that way!
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